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/ my opinions about working in a team Wednesday, February 16, 2011 / 12:31 AM
Hi.
I am being very serious here right now.
I think.?
Idk how to talk about this so i will just type.
Working in a team is never an easy task.
Cause everybody have different suggestions, different feel, different opinions or whatever.
But most importantly, i feel that...
Everyone MUST remember the fact that everyone just want to get things done in the best way, even yourself.
Words said, actions made may not be tactful at times.
But remember,
We are trying to get things done nicely here.
Not to talk super nicely to one another so that we won't hurt each others' feelings and we can waste more time on talking tactfully.
It's not like we are having a communication skills presentation, interview or whatever.
Being not tactful at times, or stoning doesn't mean that i do not respect the suggestion made from anyone.
It just means that me wanna get things done nicely too, just like you,
Or i am just stoning because i'm tired.
I mean,
Be professional.
If i tell you about my opinion of your idea,
It doesn't mean that i would kill myself if your idea is being chosen in the end,
Neither does it mean that i hate you, i dislike you, i wanna kill you, or you must use my idea if not you die.
I just wanna let you know about my opinion about your idea so that we can make things work better.
Of course it would be good if everyone have great ideas to share.
And because we should spend time on quality stuffs,
I feel that ideas provided should be described or showed in a proper way.
Things which are very confusing should not be just said in point form.
And when you are showing it, you make sure that you show it.
Don't just because we need to see it then you 随便应酬 us.
I need you to do it properly not because i want you to get injured or die.
I just wanna know if it is do-able and how does it looks like exactly.
Not to hear how it looks like for many times,
Cause i might not be picturing your idea correctly even after hearing it for dozen times.
In case if anyone who is reading it feels that i am talking rubbish or nonsense.
I just wanna remind you to read the title of this blog post again.
This is my opinions about working in a group.
Not yours, not his, not hers, not your mother's, not your father's.
It's mine ok.
Of course, every different teams have different ways of approaching.
Nice and tactful conversation every time will only occur when everyone in the team is like that.
Otherwise, it will be like what i feel.
.x.o.x.o.
AlodieT
