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/ madness part 2 Sunday, May 29, 2011 / 3:20 AM
Remember to read part 1 first.
Anyway.
Maybe i am a racist person, or maybe i am not.
But one thing for sure, i am starting to get disgusted by ah tiongs more.
Not because of the ladies who keep their armpit hairs untouched, i dont give a damn.
But because of the ah tiongs around me.
Wanted to rant about this from dont know how long ago.
Then i thought that it would be a bit not good, not appropriate, not healthy to do so.
Afterall, this is still a "family" problem.
IF i even regard them as part of the family, but obviously, i DON'T.
I should start the story off with point forms first:
✖ Aunt have a ah tiong female friend who started living in our house 4/5 years(or more?) back
✖ She gave a lot of shits at first but apparently my aunt still sides her blindly because they claim that she is a GUEST, but well i feel that she treats this place pretty much like her home
✖ All the shits she made were pushed to me. I fought back. I ended up "bleeding", she remained unharmed.
✖ 2/3 years back, we became better, i start to communicate with her, her bad non-hygenic(if you know what i mean, or if you dont) habits gone (Y)
✖ Few months back she got married in her hometown, the tiong world, then bought a flat at the west side which is much bigger and nicer than ours
✖ After marriage she still stays in our house, without her husband and with her parents living alone at her house, i dont know why
✖ She used to stay in the same room as my aunt, and now when she's married she is still staying in the same room as my aunt
✖ Ok then not long after her marriage, her husband starts to come over and stay at our house, with their parents living alone at their west side house still, and with my aunt sleeping in the same room with them BUT they took her bed and she slept on the floor
✖ Hello she is 60 already.
✖ After like dont know how long, they finally moved back, i felt peaceful (super)
✖ Few weeks ago, she got pregnant
✖ I dont know why, she starts to come back and sleep again, with her husband
✖ This time round, my aunt was being chased OUT of her own room into my another aunt's room and on the floor again
✖ Then they "took" over her room and her bed
Seriously i felt unfair for my aunt, i felt pissed with them
✖ There are a few times i saw my aunt walking around doing nothing, she used to stay in her room and play mahjong, now she walks around like a zombie cannot do anything. I can see that she wants to enter her room but she didnt.
The ah tiong male happily eating all the food at our home.
✖ I am more of a POOR person than a petty person. There are snacks that are expensive to us and we dont usually buy cause we felt that it is a waste of money.
✖ My sis just gotten married and she moved out, so now she treat us very well. She bought like Royce for us. One for me, one for my mom.
✖ My mom has never eaten a Royce chocolate before.
✖ The ah tiong man ate mine when i went to the toilet. When i came out of the toilet, my another aunt actually OFFERED him my mother's packet cause she saw that empty packet(mine) on the table, like as if he is the god of dont know what. I screamed all the way from the toilet entrance to the living room. I know i might sound greedy, but im not. He never even fucking asked me when he took mine and now he wanna take my mother's packet too?
✖ Is this even his home? No.
✖ He got embarrassed, i supposed, then he rejected it bu shuang-ly.
✖ OK then there is this time i bought sweets back from Taiwan for my mom. Cause i know that she like this kind. So i bought like 2 packets, 1 for me and 1 for mom. Apparently mine was finishing and i left it on the living room. I went back to my sit in the living room, he sat behind me then he started taking them and eat without asking. But i thought that it is fine since he took a few nia. After that when my mom walked over, he told my mom, 你要吗, 这个很好吃, 那天我在这里吃了几个, 很好吃. So he actually 吃了几个, i dont know 几个, but i know that it is without asking again. Being a guest? He is definitely not like one, so he doesnt deserve the guest treatments.
✖ Then my mom, acting like a maid, told me that she saw another packet on my luggage. So i told her that i bought that packet specially for her. Idk why they so afraid of the ah tiongs. She immediately forced me to give him like more than 3/4 of the new packet. Wtf la. If i knew earlier, i dont even wanna buy the extra packet le.
✖ These are NOT the only times, there are many times i see him happily enjoying our foods and treating himself like home.
✖ And hello? He even asked my house's lao zabors, all my aunties to help them buy food. They think we what? Maids? I dont fucking give a damn to him man.
All thanks to them, starting from 2(?) years back, our CNY Tuan Yuan Fan is no longer tuan yuan.
✖ Every CNY day 1 at night, all my cousins will definitely come here and all of us will eat our dinner together
✖ Especially this few years that we rarely have like all 7 of us together eating dinner
✖ Cause we have 2 kitchens, so every year the "kids" will stay at one table and the adults will stay at another. All of us will eat at the same time.
✖ Then an ah tiong invasion started 2 years ago, when the both of them brought their parents AND their friends with 1 kid over to eat.
✖ All thanks to them, GUESTS big what.
✖ All of us started to think like who to eat first, who to wait cause we dont have enough seats.
✖ Obviously all of us, the kids, hates the ah tiongs, cause they never even give angbao but they give a lot of troubles. Then my aunties started to ask us to eat first at the other table.
✖ Apparently idk why, ah tiongs appetite VERY big. They ended up finishing the rice. Most of our lao ren jia have no food to eat. My aunt have to recook rice. And must wait until the ah tiongs eat finish already then they can eat, eat their LEFTOVERS lo. As i said earlier on, their appetite VERY big, so the lao ren jias also dont have much ingredients left.
✖ A tuan yuan fan that i used to look forward to, is totally ruined, all thanks to them again..
And a NEWLY updated, FRESHLY updated news of TODAY.
A very fucked up one.
I am very manly i admit, but i am still a female bitch.
I dont know if that is called brave.
But today he bravely came to talk to me.
He asked me where is my samsung charger.
And "wow" he actually knows that i have samsung charger when i never even show him my phone or my charger before.
Anyway.
Then i told him that i dont know cause i am using my spare phone (nokia) now.
Guess what he says.
He said he saw it somewhere in my room the other time.
SO HELLO HE ACTUALLY WENT INTO MY ROOM WITHOUT MY PERMISSION AND WITHOUT ME KNOWING BEFORE?!
Then i told him that i never use samsung anymore so i have no idea about that charger.
Guess what he says again.
He told me that he actually TOOK it from my room and USED it before and left it somewhere and now that it is GONE, so he came to ask me.
And if i am not wrong, i heard him saying very softly "你是不是把它收起来啊".
FYI, why the fuck i even hide my chargers when i dont even know that he is actually using it.
But of course if i know that i would.
And obviously i have lost my samsung phone for dont know how long already.
So for what i still use that charger sia, i dont even give a damn about it.
The whole point about him entering my room without my permission is already fucking rude.
And now he even touches, take, and use my stuffs without my permission.
So hello again, am i supposed to lock everything up now even when i am at home?
I don't feel safe anymore.
Even leaving my money on my table for like awhile, i also will scared.
Tmd, this is no longer a home.
It is a ah tiong hostel.
I can never speak up to them.
Cause i know, they look down on me.
Things that i do is wrong, things that the ah tiongs did even worse than me is right.
I no longer know what is wrong or right.
I just feel that this house doesnt have the feel of home anymore.
No matter how much i used to dislike my family, i still love my home.
But now, idk.
Some times i really dont understand why my aunties have to take them in.
There is nothing much i can say though.
If you think that working with ah tiong is worse,
Try staying with 2.
.x.o.x.o.
AlodieT
